Many Christians are concerned about loved ones who don’t embrace their faith (or a particular brand of Christianity). Some fear that if their spouse, child, or friend doesn’t “get saved,” they might suffer an untimely death and go to hell. Others fear their loved ones are suffering unnecessary pain and missing the peace and joy that come from following Jesus. In this message, I invite you to consider how being overly concerned that a loved one might go to hell could be grounded in bad theology that myopically focuses on the judgment and wrath of God. I also suggest that this focus on fear and judgment can lead to counterproductive ways of sharing our faith that push people away and make it less likely they will become followers of Jesus. In contrast, if we focus on helping people find real healing, forgiveness, love, and joy in the here and now, this will lead us to share our faith in ways that actually work. The goal is not to scare the hell out of people with threats of divine punishment (which never leads to lasting transformation), but to love the hell out of people by being the heart, hands, feet, and voice of the most compassionate man to walk the face of the earth–Jesus Christ. If you really want to help someone receive the good news of the gospel, then check out this message!